Sounds Like Weird
28 May 2014
Because when I said no, I was raped. Conceding to the assault (rather than fighting) kept me out of the hospital. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Later, found out my rapist had raped someone else. She fought. I hadn’t seen her (before my attack) because of cracked ribs. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Being asked in a job interview, “Are you related to Rick Moen?” Froze, because I knew any real answer would cost me the job. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Context on that last: they were Daniel J. Bernstein fans, and he has issues with my husband. My relatives should not be factored into whether or not I get a job. It was an illegal question, and I’ll call out the company: IronPort.
Re: http://t.co/RpaQ14w81p I did not get the job. Being related (or married) to someone should not be a factor in hiring. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Knowing that posting a critique of (likely unintentional) sexism of a company’s site would cost me jobs. http://t.co/ugWOe9CEZb #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
As a handicapped female employee, I feared speaking out about Apple while I worked there. http://t.co/piPGnruAEy #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Being asked in an interview, “How do you feel about working on a team of all men?” Used to it, I’m a programmer. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Being offered a lesser job that paid half as much because I’m female. http://t.co/igFR6ABTlX #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Trying to walk home from a pub at night and being pursued by a guy in a car who wanted sex favors. No cell phones then. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Turning down the advances of the too-eager guy in the social group. Later find out he’s gotten a criminal record for creeping. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Being on a team of 38 people and the only female software engineer (of ~30). #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Feeling like a software engineering team is overwhelmingly female. After counting, you realize it’s still only a third. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
To be ignored in deference to my husband all around the world (I’ve visited 91 countries). #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Seeing a line of women in front of a store in Taroudant, Morocco. Écrivan Publique. Scribe. Insufficient education for women. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Enrolling in wood shop & was asked why a woman would want to take shop. I’d already made bushings for fighter aircraft. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Being told that women couldn’t possibly be good software engineers. I’d already had code (and an experiment) run in space. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Best friend was locked out from her apartment when her boyfriend had a hooker in there. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Being told I couldn’t take more advanced math in school because there was no one to teach the next level next year. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Would a boy have gotten the same response?
Being told that I was “too fat” when in fact I had so little body fat that I was anorexic. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Because my husband (then bf) felt safe walking around his old neighborhood at night; I didn’t. Too many drunk people clubbing. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Because someone revealed in an interview that I was interesting because I’d fill a quota. Not because of my skills. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Asking about parenting plans are illegal, but being asked interview questions that danced around my plans for time off. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Hearing from a recruiter, time and time again, over decades, that a company hired a man instead of you. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Forgot the one that’s plagued me the most! Told over & over that men don’t like smart women. For my safety, I should play dumb. #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Oh yeah. reporting harassment. I have a story about that, too. http://t.co/13jqUps7pE #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Rick and I didn’t believe that a man we knew slightly killed his wife. Hans Reiser is a murderer. https://t.co/Zp5sRvlCsi #YesAllWomen
— Deirdre Saoirse Moen (@deirdresm) May 27, 2014
Some other tweets I retweeted:
For every rape of a WW, 5 go unreported. For BW, the ratio is 1:15. #YesALLWomen #YesALLWhiteWomen
— Jenn M. Jackson (@JennMJack) May 27, 2014
Because a female driven YA novel will be pushed as blame for a man’s murder before his own misogyny. pic.twitter.com/pYpeNLmxbC #YesAllWomen
— Kayleigh Anne (@Ceilidhann) May 24, 2014
Do not. suggest. violent men. see sex workers. We already deal with outrageous levels of violence. We’re not your garbage collectors.
— Quirky Adorkable (@LoriAdorable) May 25, 2014
@deirdresm This is exactly why we feel the creating a National Girls in Science Day http://t.co/xgpgbJ8sYy is so important.
— Dr. Faye Abood (@DrFayeAbood) May 27, 2014
#YesAllWomen because when I say I don’t want kids, people tell me I will change my mind. You don’t hear people saying that to men.
— Lauren Grace Guillot (@LaurenGracy) May 27, 2014
#yesallwomen because the correct answer is actually never and no not okay ever pic.twitter.com/8d89Kck9fw
— Jackie Ball (@Jackierball1) May 27, 2014
#YesAllWomen because when online dating, women are afraid of meeting a rapist or being killed. Men are afraid of meeting someone fat.
— sylvia (@sparklystuff) May 27, 2014
#YesAllWomen Because we don’t report sexual harassment in the workplace for fear of being fired.
— Christina Hernandez (@XtinaHernandez) May 27, 2014
Not directly related, but timely:
If you go to bed with a book you’re never going to bed alone.
— Pam van Hylckama (@BookaliciousPam) May 27, 2014
Last, this one made me laugh.
“Alpha male” sounds like everyone would be better waiting until the beta and production releases come around.
— Les Orchard (@lmorchard) May 25, 2014